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Mar 5
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Why Complaining Feels Good (But It’s Rew...

Parmis Najmi
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In this episode of the Positive Proof Podcast, we’re talking about something we all do but rarely question: complaining. Why does it feel so good to vent? Why does bonding over frustration feel so validating? And more importantly… what is it actually doing to your brain? The truth is, complaining isn’t just a harmless habit. Research in psychology and neuros ... Show More
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