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Feb 11
17m 27s

The Certainty Habit (That Makes OCD Wors...

TheOCDandAnxietyPodcast
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Book your free discovery call directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Robert James explains how chasing certainty and seeking reassurance actually strengthens OCD and keeps anxiety returning. He shares five practical shifts you can use right away: notice the certainty hunt, stop feeding it with attention or reassurance, allow discomfort without solving ... Show More
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