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Nov 7
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How To Handle Doubters & Stop Self-Sabot...

High Performance
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In this episode, Jake and Damian turn the spotlight on you, answering the questions that listeners have been sending in from around the world. From overcoming self-sabotage to dealing with doubt, they explore what it really takes to build confidence, stay consistent, and live with purpose.


Drawing on lessons from past guests like James Clear, Susie Ma, and Shane Parrish, they unpack powerful ideas around mindset, happiness, and self-awareness, including why we must be brave enough to tolerate happiness and how to navigate a world that doesn’t always share your drive for improvement.


Listen in as they reflect on their most memorable guests, share the stories that shaped their thinking, and offer practical advice for anyone striving to grow, one honest question at a time.


Listen to the episodes mentioned:

James Clear: https://pod.fo/e/16868c

Susie Ma: https://pod.fo/e/bf09e

Shane Parrish: https://pod.fo/e/1ff000

Gary Stevenson: https://pod.fo/e/2af4d8

Gordon Ramsay: https://pod.fo/e/1fa614

Laura Kenny: https://pod.fo/e/249586

Dame Stephanie Shirley: https://pod.fo/e/16a443

Tyson Fury: https://pod.fo/e/14ef0f



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