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Nov 2025
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Why humblebragging is never a good idea,...

AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION
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We all want to be liked and respected. But sometimes, our intuitions about how to make a good impression lead us astray. Övül Sezer, PhD, talks about common mistakes, including humblebragging and hiding our accomplishments; whether the rules of making a good impression are different on social media; and how to “brag wisely” by sharing your journey rather tha ... Show More
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