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Sep 2022
7m 30s

Trying to Appear Wise is Unwise

JON BROOKS
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A lot of us get into philosophy and self-improvement not to actually become wiser, but to be seen as wise. Epictetus spotted how badly that backfires. In this lesson I sit with one of his sharper passages and what it asks of us. Epictetus put it this way: “If you want to make progress, put up with being perceived as ignorant or naive in worldly matters, don’ ... Show More
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