Wanting to make everyone like you could be standing in the way of reaching your fullest potential. Being accepted and respected by others can create an empowering sense of validation - but at what cost? It’s time to recognize that trying to make everyone like you can become counterproductive when not managed properly; it takes away our power and essential se ... Show More
Oct 6
#724: How To Stop Being So Hard On Yourself Without Lowering Your Standards
In this episode, you'll learn how to recognize the difference between your inner critic and your inner coach, stop using shame as motivation, and turn mistakes into useful action. ✅ FREE CLASS! LEARN HOW TO STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK Don’t forget to sign up for our free “H ... Show More
28m 21s
Sep 29
#723: How to Keep Going When You Don’t Feel Like Yourself
In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, we’re talking about how to keep moving toward your goals when your mental and emotional capacity changes. You’ll learn how to stop making permanent conclusions from temporary feelings, create a low-capacity version of your routine, separ ... Show More
30m 40s
Sep 22
#722: How To Be Okay With Someone Being Disappointed In You (And How To Stop Feeling Disappointed In Yourself)
In this episode of The Confidence Podcast, you’ll learn how to stop confusing someone else’s disappointment with your wrongdoing, how to tolerate the discomfort of letting people down, and how to choose self-respect without becoming selfish or uncaring. ✅ FREE CLASS! LEARN HOW ... Show More
31m 53s
May 2025
EP#720 When I Stopped Chasing Approval — I Started Attracting Alignment
<p>If you're always trying to make everyone like you, you're not being the real you. In this video, we dive into why true freedom is the ability to be disliked—and how letting go of approval opens you up to deeper, more authentic connections. Watch to learn how to stop chasing va ... Show More
26m 45s
Feb 2022
People Pleaser? How to Stop. | E285
Do you have a hard time saying no? Do you feel guilty when you can’t do what others want? If so, you may struggle with people pleasing, a habit that can add a lot of stress to your life and resentment to your relationships. Never fear — this episode of the Love, Happiness and Su ... Show More
51m 10s
Jul 2020
942 | Trent Shelton: “What’s the Point of Gaining the World’s Approval if That Gain Means You Lose Yourself?”
Are the opinions of others stopping you from being who you really are and from doing what you really want to do? On today’s episode, Trent Shelton reveals the pitfalls of trying to please everybody. Sign up for next week’s FREE class, 5 Things the Money Gurus Never Tell You: How ... Show More
10m 50s
Jun 2025
397. How to Stop Giving a F*ck What Other People Think (Greatest Hits)
Are you exhausted from constantly worrying about what other people think of you? Whether it’s your boss, your family, or even strangers, this fixation zaps your energy and keeps you from being your authentic self. But here's the truth: the more you focus on their opinions, the le ... Show More
14m 31s
Jan 2025
269. How to care less about others opinions
Everyone has an opinion, but are they all worth listening to? When we're not careful we can get carried away by imagining what people may or may not think about everything from our outfits, to our life choices, to our social media presence, to our relationship decisions. When we ... Show More
37m 40s