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How To Set Boundaries Without Losing You...

Lewis Howes
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"Bending over backwards in a relationship is not love." – Baya Voce

When Baya Voce talks about boundaries, she isn’t speaking from theory, she’s lived through the emotional chaos that comes when you mistake self-sacrifice for connection. In this intimate exchange, Baya and Lewis dive into the quiet courage it takes to say no without guilt and to believe that you’ll still be okay when you do. She reminds us that real love isn’t earned through contortion or compromise, it’s built on alignment, truth, and the safety of being fully seen.

What begins as a conversation about romantic boundaries unfolds into something deeper — a reflection on friendship, self-worth, and emotional honesty. Baya shares how lifelong friendships anchor her when everything else shifts, and Lewis opens up about his own recent journey of redefining what healthy relationships look like. Together, they explore the idea that outgrowing people doesn’t mean failure, it means you’re finally growing into yourself.

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