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Oct 20
1h 14m

Heal First, Love Better: The Repair Fram...

Lewis Howes
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Relationship expert Baya Voce reveals why our need for frictionless experiences is destroying our ability to handle real-world conflict and how exposure to discomfort might be the key to lasting love. You'll learn the exact repair scripts that can transform arguments into deeper connection within minutes. 
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