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Oct 2025
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219. Why You Feel Like You're "In Troubl...

Alissa Boyer
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253. How To Energetically Protect Yourself + Not Take It Personally When Others Project Onto You
This week's episode comes from a riff request in the Not Too Sensitive Club group chat, a question about how to stop taking it personally when someone seems committed to disliking you, especially when you're wired to feel that discomfort in your body.It's uncomfortable to sense s ... Show More
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252. No One Else Gets to Decide That You're "Too Much" or "Not Enough"
In this solo episode, Alissa names the exhaustion of shape shifting to fit an imagined mold of what's acceptable, and offers the alternative: deciding, every day, who you are and how you want to show up.Sparked by comments on a viral Instagram post about owning being "too much," ... Show More
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251. So What if People Judge You? How to Embrace Being "Cringe" and Build Sky High Self-Trust
Alissa recently shared a post that said "please be too much," and it went viral, reaching over 2 million people after nearly two years of feeling like her work wasn't getting seen. But this episode isn't really about going viral. It's about what happened in those two quiet years ... Show More
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