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Jul 20
31m 3s

Are you giving away your power?

PAUL COLAIANNI
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Some people seem to have a toxic gravitational pull that affects everyone around them. And whether you're with them or not, they are either on your mind or in your space. Getting away from their influence can feel impossible. 
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