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Jun 1
18m 31s

You’re Not Obsessed—You’re Avoiding Your...

Pearlieee
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You’re obsessing over someone because it’s easier than facing your own life. This isn’t about them. It’s about your scarcity. Your fear. Your avoidance. The dream you’ve built around someone else because you're too afraid to build your own.In this video, we unpack the real reasons you can’t let go—scarcity mindset, projection, lack of discipline, escapism, and emotional self-abandonment—and I show you what it really means to come home to yourself. This one’s not pretty. But it’s honest. And it might be the beginning of your freedom

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