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Oct 6
1h 18m

The Psychology of Resentment: Over-Funct...

RICK HANSON, PH.D., FORREST HANSON
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Dr. Rick and Forrest explore the silent killer of relationships: resentment. They discuss resentment as a combination of perceived grievance (“I was wronged”) and helplessness (“and I can’t fix it”), before talking about how over-functioning and control tendencies can lead to resentment in relationships - one person shoulders more of the load while quietly s ... Show More
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