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Sep 24
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1179: When Your Mind Turns Against You: ...

GINA RYAN
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In today's episode, Gina discusses the awesome power of a shift in perspective when dealing with intrusive thoughts. It is imperative that individuals suffering with anxiety and intrusive thoughts learn to let go of the thoughts and understand that they are not these disturbing thoughts. Strong revulsion from the thoughts creates strong attachments to the thoughts and causes them to recur over time. Learn how to avoid this in this episode! Reduce unwanted thoughts and feel better!


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What a liberation to realize that the ‘voice in my head’ is not who I am. Who am I then? The one who sees that. 


-Eckhart Tolle


Chapters

0:26 Introduction to Intrusive Thoughts

1:58 The Connection Between Rumination and Intrusive Thoughts

3:35 Science of Intrusive Thoughts

9:29 Embracing the Uninvited

10:48 The Power of Acceptance

13:13 The Role of Self-Compassion

15:28 Transforming Your Relationship with Thoughts

17:10 Practicing Mindfulness and Acceptance

18:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


Summary

In this episode, I delve into the topic of intrusive thoughts, a subject that has been met with many questions and misunderstandings. I explore the very nature of these unwanted thoughts that can make us feel as though our minds have turned against us, trapping us in an overwhelming cycle that seems relentless and distressing. I invite listeners to consider the possibility that intrusive thoughts do not define us, and that they can lose their power when we change our perspective on them.


I discuss how the natural response to intrusive thoughts is often to push them away or suppress them, a method that ultimately leads to an even stronger rebound effect. Through the lens of neuroscience, I explain how the brain's default mode network can create loops of self-focused thinking that keep us stuck in rumination. Many of us experience a cycle of negative thinking that not only intensifies our distress but also reinforces the persistence of these intrusive thoughts. I emphasize that becoming aware of this cycle can provide us with the hope we need to navigate these tumultuous moments.


Drawing on insights from Eckhart Tolle, I illustrate the importance of understanding that we are not our thoughts. Instead, we are the observers of them, which can be a liberating realization. By accepting our intrusive thoughts without judgment, we allow them to exist as transient blips in our mind rather than as representatives of our character. I explain that emotional tagging by the amygdala can make these thoughts feel sticky, yet we can learn to embrace the uninvited rather than resist them.


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