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Jun 2025
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Why Intrusive Thoughts Don’t Mean You’re...

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In this episode of the OCD and Anxiety podcast, Robert James, a seasoned coach and fellow sufferer, delves into the nature of intrusive thoughts and how they can make you question your identity and values. He discusses the common misconception that these thoughts are indicative of one's character and explains why they're more about a sensitive mind overly conscious of protecting what matters most.

Robert shares personal anecdotes and outlines methods to detach your self-worth from these thoughts. Emphasizing the role of acceptance, he highlights how understanding the thoughts as mere "mental static" rather than truths can usher in transformation. Through personal stories and proven strategies, this episode guides you on the path to reclaiming your peace despite the presence of intrusive thoughts

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Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

 

 

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