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Send us a textSo many of us carry the belief that we have to earn love. That if we change who we are, give more of ourselves, or abandon our own needs, then maybe, just maybe, someone will finally choose us. But true love isn’t an audition.In this powerful episode of Beyond Words ... Show More

You don’t want love—you want to be picked. You want to be validated. You want to be enough. But true love isn’t something you earn—it’s something you receive without performance. This video is for every person who has chased the emotionally unavailable, confused anxiety for love, ... Show More

If you’ve ever wondered whether people would still love you without the performance, this is for you. In this episode, we’re dismantling the fear of not being loved for who you really are. No more shrinking. No more pretending. No more trying to earn love by being digestible. It’ ... Show More

If you’ve ever felt like you have to shrink, mute, or manage yourself just to be accepted—this is for you. People-pleasing isn’t kindness. It’s self-erasure. And the more you do it, the less of you there is left. This video is your wake-up call to stop disappearing from your own ... Show More

In this episode, I dive deep into how you can stop abandoning yourself and start choosing self-respect. Learn how to identify the behaviors that keep you stuck, confront the void inside, and create a life where self-respect and authenticity are non-negotiables.It’s time to break ... Show More

In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, let's talk about ethereal ways to create a hot girl mindset. We'll discuss ways to break free from the mental prison of limiting beliefs, the game of thought, developing mental discipline, and how to get the universe to conspire in your ... Show More

You were taught to equate love with pain. With disappearing. With giving until there’s nothing left. But what if that wasn’t love? What if it was survival—masquerading as devotion?In this episode, we break down the lies you’ve been sold about love, from loyalty that punishes to s ... Show More

We dive into the art of detachment and how to stop clinging to emotional wounds that keep you stuck. Learn how to start choosing yourself over unhealthy attachments. This is not about disconnecting from love, but about healing from within, setting boundaries, and freeing yourself ... Show More

In today's episode I talk to all of you about the 'let them' theory, and we break down how to stop chasing people who do not open themselves up to your attention. It is so easy to hold onto people and memories, but it is so important to allow yourself to let go as easy as they di ... Show More

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