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Apr 2025
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The People-Pleaser in You Was Born from ...

Pearlieee
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If you’ve ever felt like you have to shrink, mute, or manage yourself just to be accepted—this is for you. People-pleasing isn’t kindness. It’s self-erasure. And the more you do it, the less of you there is left. This video is your wake-up call to stop disappearing from your own life. It’s time to stop erasing yourself.

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