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Sep 8
1h 14m

People Pleasing and the Fawn Response wi...

RICK HANSON, PH.D., FORREST HANSON
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Forrest and therapist Meg Josephson explore the fawn response, a survival strategy where safety is sought by pleasing other people. They discuss how fawning can start as self-protection in childhood, but later morph into overthinking, hypervigilance, and self-abandonment. Meg shares her own experience, including how fawning creates resentment and makes it di ... Show More
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