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527. What to Do with Persistent, Unwante...

Jody Moore
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Our brains generate around 70,000 thoughts per day, and we can't control all of them. The random, bizarre, or negative thoughts that pop into our heads are just part of being human.

 

The real question isn't how to eliminate these thoughts entirely, but rather how to work with them effectively.

 

Tune in this week as I address persistent, unwanted thoughts today by sharing three practical strategies for handling those stubborn thoughts that seem to have a mind of their own. You'll discover why fighting against unwanted thoughts actually makes them stronger, how to use your brain's natural tendencies to your advantage, and why sometimes the simplest solutions are the most powerful.

 

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://jodymoore.com/527

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