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Jun 5
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397. How to Stop Giving a F*ck What Othe...

KARA LOEWENTHEIL
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Are you exhausted from constantly worrying about what other people think of you? Whether it’s your boss, your family, or even strangers, this fixation zaps your energy and keeps you from being your authentic self. But here's the truth: the more you focus on their opinions, the less you connect with your own.

In this episode, I’m diving into why “just letting it go” never works, and why your brain can’t simply switch off these thoughts. I’ll show you how to uncover the deeper beliefs fueling your worries, and teach you how to replace them with thoughts that actually support you.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/397

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