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Jul 24
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434. Breaking Free from Old Patterns & ...

Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa
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Welcome back, beautiful beans! I answer your questions you sent in, I go over the the concept of 'core coding' and how to overcome ingrained beliefs from childhood, particularly those rooted in religious guilt. I also talk through the challenge of making life altering decisions without disrupting the good things already present in our lives. Then I discuss b ... Show More
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