In this episode, John and Vanessa talk about how codependency impacts our relationships with others along with the relationship we have with our selves. They talk about what codependency and enmeshment looks like in our relationships, how attachment styles come into play, and how they have healed from their codependency issues with each other and others.
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Today
Don’t Fix the Relationship. Rebuild It
John breaks down why “2x love” keeps people stuck in the same patterns, while “10x love” asks for a total redesign. He talks about self-respect, raising your standards, releasing old blueprints, and building a relationship that feels aligned instead of familiar. If you’ve been tr ... Show More
17m 41s
Mar 16
Acupuncture, Healing & Body Wisdom with Kiran K Aulakh
In this episode, John sits down with Kiran K Aulakh, acupuncturist and craniosacral practitioner, for a conversation about healing, sensitivity, and what it means to reconnect with the body. Kiran shares how jaw pain, anxiety, and restricted self-expression first led her inward, ... Show More
39m 18s
Mar 12
Therapy Thursdays | Is This Relationship Fixable?
In this episode, John answers listener questions about attachment wounds, commitment issues, trauma bonds, intrusive thoughts, divorce, and the painful question so many people wrestle with: is this relationship worth fighting for, or is it time to let go? He explores what actuall ... Show More
21m 53s
Oct 2019
25. "I Don't Need You, But I Want You" 10 Signs You May Be Codependent
<p>Hey Girl Hey!</p> <p> </p> <p>This week we get deep into the world of codependency. We talk about what codependency is, what are some of the signs of codependency, how codependency and narcissism are two sides of the same coin, how codependency affects self-esteem, codependenc ... Show More
38m 20s
Mar 2022
148. What NO ONE Tells You About Codependency
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Codependency is a big topic, but I want to clue you in on something about the topic that people tend not to talk about. That's what this episode centers around, and once you gain this understanding, there's no going back! </span></p> <p><span st ... Show More
20m 17s
Aug 2021
#51 - On Healing Codependency and Emotional Dependency (Part II)
<p>This is part II of a 2-episode series on healing codependency and emotional dependency. In this episode, Amina and I discuss how to reclaim our place and power in relationships, how to help men reclaim their masculinity, how to reconnect with our path and purpose, as well as h ... Show More
1h 28m
Apr 2023
Dealing with Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Styles, Betrayal, and Regulating Your Nervous System with Dr. Zoe Shaw
<p dir="ltr">Sherry and Carla send a shout-out to their fantastic listeners from Sweden before taking a Love Fix Question from a listener who dislikes their boyfriend's family and is overwhelmed by their gossipy nature. They then welcome Dr. Zoe Shaw, a licensed psychotherapist, ... Show More
28m 34s