Are you in a relationship with someone who has issues they're not getting help for? It is painful to watch someone you love struggle, and it's also frustrating when you're not getting your needs met in a relationship. How do you help someone who won't help themselves? How long do you wait? When does being "supportive" slide into being "codependent?" When do ... Show More
Apr 16
Is Your Secure Bond Missing? How to Build Trust and Feel Safe | Dr. Amir Levine | Happiness | E516
If you want a secure bond but keep feeling activated or shut down, you’re not doomed. A secure bond gets built through emotional intimacy, trust, and safe relationships, not willpower. Most people hear about attachment styles and think, “Okay… that’s me.” But insight alone doesn’ ... Show More
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Apr 13
Parenting Triggers: How to Handle Your Stuff So Your Kids Don’t Have To | Happiness | E515
If parenting is bringing out anger you don’t recognize… you’re not alone. And if anxiety is riding shotgun in your nervous system, same. Today we’re talking emotions, conflict, and repair so you can stay safe and secure even when things get messy. In this conversation, I’m joined ... Show More
1h 5m
Apr 9
How to Fix Communication Problems: Repair Conflict Fast for Trust | Mika Ross | E514
If you have communication problems, you’re probably not fighting about what you think you’re fighting about. And that’s good news. Because the real issue is usually conflict & repair, not the “topic” and with clear boundaries, you can start to repair trust instead of repeating th ... Show More
1h 5m
Oct 2022
How to Get Over The End of a Relationship? (6-Year Relationship that Ended in Cheating) Ep. 91 - Alex Alvarez
<p>How do you move on after a long-term relationship or marriage ends? If you are newly divorced, separated, or coming out of a long-term relationship, this week's episode will provide you with a way forward. </p>
<p>Overcoming a heartbreak can be devastatingly difficult, es ... Show More
2 h
Oct 2017
056: Interpersonal Model (Part 3) — "And It's All Your Fault!" Interpersonal Decision-Making and Blame Cost-Benefit Analysis
<p>Bob, a psychiatric resident named was treating a divorced woman who complained bitterly about her ex, and constantly argued with him whenever he came to visit with the children.</p> <p>Their relationship was clearly acrimonious, so Bob asked the woman if she wanted some help w ... Show More
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