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May 2025
52m 38s

Permission to be human: How to be a pare...

Dr Rosie Gilderthorp
About this episode

Permission to be human: How to be a parent and a psychologist with Dr Jade Redfern

Welcome to the Business of Psychology podcast. Today I'm joined by Dr Jade Redfern, a clinical psychologist who specialises in supporting parents. With experience in both the NHS and a busy private practice, she's now the founder of the Permission to be Human group for psychologist parents, and is passionate about helping other mental health professionals to thrive in their roles both as business owners and parents. 

Full show notes and a transcript of this episode are available at The Business of Psychology

Links for Jade:

Website: www.drjaderedfern.co.uk

Instagram: @drjaderedfern

Links for Rosie:

Substack: substack.com/@drrosie

Rosie on Instagram:

@rosiegilderthorp

@thepregnancypsychologist

The highlights

  • Jade tells us about what led her to the business that she has now 00:54
  • Jade talks about the challenges of parenting as a psychologist 02:47
  • We discuss the myth of perfect parenting and the impact of social media on parenting 08:14 
  • Jade tells us how Permission to be Human was born 22:16
  • We discuss the impact of professional experience on parenting 29:06
  • We talk about the importance of reflective practice 31:36
  • I ask Jade about her experience with getting support in in her business 35:09
  • Jade tells us how we can get in touch 47:51

Evolve and Thrive Mastermind

Are you a psychologist or therapist with a thriving practice, but you're feeling stuck?

Do you dream of more predictable income or more time for your family and maybe the ability to make a wider impact in mental health?

I get it. You are passionate about helping people, but the business side can often feel really overwhelming.

You've probably tried it all; podcasts, books, maybe even some short term coaching.

But maybe you're still struggling with procrastination, indecision, or just not knowing how to create a passive income stream.

If that sounds like you, I've got something really exciting to share with you. I've been developing it for a while and I'm really excited about it.

It's called the Evolve and Thrive Mastermind, and it is designed specifically for psychologists and therapists like you that have a thriving private practice already, but are desperate to bring some passive or semi-passive income into their practice so that they can make more impact in the world and maybe have more flexibility in their life as well.

This program includes mastermind sessions with me and guest speakers, a Clarity and Values day retreat to hone in on your ideal client and the offers that you should be making to them, and the creation of a personalised business and marketing plan. So you will leave the Mastermind with everything that you need to make your plans a reality. You'll get tangible results out of this. So you're going to come away with documents, like your business plan, your marketing plan, and your sales emails, all written. Plus you'll get ongoing support and a community of like-minded professionals to keep you accountable and raise you up when you need it.

So if now is the...

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