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May 2025
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Time Blindness: What To Do When Now Isn'...

Emily Kircher-Morris
About this episode

Emily Kircher-Morris welcomes Dr. Ari Tuckman for a conversation about time blindness, the complexities of ADHD, and the stigma surrounding the disorder. They discuss why ADHD is more about the struggle to convert attention into action than a lack of knowledge. They talk about how and why ADHD affects time perception and performance under pressure. If you're prone to procrastination, anxiety, and time management issues, this is an episode you need to hear.

TAKEAWAYS

  • ADHD is often misunderstood as a lack of attention rather than a difficulty in converting attention into action.

  • Time perception in ADHD can be distorted, leading to challenges in planning and prioritizing tasks.

  • Individuals with ADHD may perform better under pressure, but this can lead to anxiety and self-doubt.

  • The internalized stigma can cause ADHD individuals to feel like frauds despite their successes.

  • Social dynamics play a significant role in how ADHD behaviors are perceived by others.

  • The pressure to conform to neurotypical standards can hinder the ability to find effective personal strategies.

  • ADHD can contribute to anxiety, not just in the individual but also in those around them. Procrastination can also cause anxiety for others around you.

  • Time management involves multiple components, including attention management.

  • Physical clocks can help with time perception.

  • Alarms are reminders, not motivators.

  • Gamifying tasks can reduce procrastination.

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Ari Tuckman, PsyD, MBA, is a psychologist, author, and recognized expert in adult ADHD with over two decades of experience in the field. He has written five books on ADHD and is a sought-after international speaker, known for his engaging presentations that combine insight, humor, and practical strategies to help individuals better understand and manage ADHD.

In addition to his clinical work, Dr. Tuckman has been a strong advocate for increasing awareness and access to effective ADHD treatment. He regularly contributes to professional publications, podcasts, and conferences, providing guidance for both individuals with ADHD and the professionals who support them. As a leading voice in the field, he is dedicated to empowering neurodivergent individuals to thrive in both personal and professional settings.

BACKGROUND READING

The ADHD Productivity Manual on Amazon, Ari Tuckman’s website and books

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