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May 2025
9m 16s

If They Keep Ghosting You, WHy Are You S...

Kenny Weiss
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It’s not about the message.It’s about your story.For me, it goes back to being a kid—waiting on a mother who promised she’d stop drinking… and never did.I learned early that words were cheap.So now, as an adult, I watch actions.Always actions.That’s why I have non-negotiables around communication.Not because I’m “too much”…But because my trauma taught me what silence really feels like.And here’s what most people miss:You won’t stop getting triggered until you know what your needs are.Your morals.Your values.Your negotiables… and your non-negotiables.If you don’t know them, you’ll keep chasing people who ignore you…and calling it love.📘 If you're ready to stop giving yourself away,start your healing here:https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350?month=2025-05📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ📚 MY FIRST BOOK:'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses🕺CONNECT WITH ME:Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAjInstagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kwFacebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.netNewsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter

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