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Jul 11
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Why They Left You (And What To Do With T...

JB Copeland
About this episode

You gave your heart.
They pulled away.
Now you're left with silence… and pain that won’t explain itself.

In this episode of Sappy Hour, we unpack two real voicemails from people who got left — one ghosted after a deep connection, the other grieving a relationship that felt like forever.

But this isn’t just about them.
It’s about you.

  • Why they left (and what it wasn’t about)
  • What the pain is actually pointing to
  • How to stop chasing clarity and start building self-trust
  • The 6 steps to stop relapsing into heartbreak
  • And the truth: your soul is trying to reroute you

If you’ve been left on read, left behind, or left wondering… this one is for you.

You’re not too much. You’re not too late. You’re not broken.

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