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May 2025
51m 45s

137: I Used to Be A Hot Mess... And What...

The Sabrina Zohar Show
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What if the reason you’re spiraling after a text, chasing validation, or attaching to people who barely know you… isn’t about them at all? In this vulnerable solo-meets-guest episode, Sabrina opens up about how her anxious attachment shaped over a decade of dating—texting obsessively, abandoning her needs, and mistaking chemistry for connection. For the seco ... Show More
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