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Apr 2025
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When Good Intentions Cause Harm: Don’t U...

Teal Swan
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Good intentions don’t erase the harm caused. Too often, we use intent to justify or minimize pain—whether it’s our own or someone else’s. In this video, I’ll break down why this mindset is so damaging and why impact is what truly matters.


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