Have you ever been in a conversation where no matter what you say, it’s clear—there’s no winning? Some people are committed to misunderstanding you. In today’s episode, I’m breaking down how to protect your peace, stand your ground, and keep your integrity when someone’s trying to make you the villain in their story.
Whether it’s a bully, a manipulator, or ... Show More
Aug 19
Body Language Expert: The #1 Cue That Makes People Dislike You
Ever wonder why some people just click with everyone? In this episode, I sit down with my friend Vanessa Van Edwards—behavioral investigator, author, and founder of Science of People—to break down the science behind first impressions, charisma, and connection. We dig into what pe ... Show More
55m 56s
Aug 5
How to Talk to Someone Who Doesn’t Like You
Let’s be real—there are people you don’t like, and there are people who don’t like you. That’s just life. But what do you do when you have to deal with them—at work, at home, or anywhere you can’t avoid them? In this episode, I’m sharing three simple strategies to keep your cool, ... Show More
14m 34s
Jun 2024
How To Reclaim Your Power From A Narcissist
Learn how to outsmart and reclaim your power from a narcissist with two magic phrases.
If you're looking to take control and power back from a narcissistic individual, this video is for you. Discover empowering techniques to protect yourself, set boundaries, and regain confid ... Show More
3m 14s
Feb 2025
How To Handle Difficult People & Take Back Your Peace and Power
Today, you are getting research-backed strategies for handling difficult people. In this episode, you will dive deep into how to respond to disrespect, gaslighting, and exactly what to say when someone tries to brush off their behavior with, “I was just joking.” You and Mel are b ... Show More
50m 21s
Jul 30
7 FBI Negotiation Secrets to Outsmart Narcissists, Liars & Manipulators | Chris Voss
Lisa Bilyeu sits down with former FBI hostage negotiator, Chris Voss, a man who’s spent decades navigating the minds of some of the most dangerous and manipulative people on the planet—including terrorists, criminals, narcissists, and psychopaths. In this incredibly insightful co ... Show More
56m 19s
Mar 2022
#2: Is Your Inner Boy Judging Men as Narcissist, or other Analysis? + Listener Question on Accepting a Man's No When He Cancels Last Minute
Have you even had a man disrespect you and wonder how to "accept his no"? Is your Inner Boy into DSM-style labeling (Narcissists, Borderline Personality Disorder, etc.) when a man can't love, claim or treat you with respect? I answer a Masculine Energy question about acceptin ... Show More
19m 33s
Mar 2025
The Speaking Coach: The One Word All Liars Use! Stop Saying This Word, It's Making You Sound Weak! The More You Do This, The More You Sound Like A Liar!
How do you communicate like a top lawyer and command respect? Jefferson Fisher reveals the courtroom-tested tricks that win cases AND everyday conversations
Jefferson Fisher is a trial lawyer, communication expert, and host of ‘The Jefferson Fisher Podcast’, where he teaches how ... Show More
2h 17m
May 2024
Episode 531: Life as a Sociopath (with Patric Gagne)
What's it like to be a sociopath? This week's guest tells us. On this episode, Katy sits down with author and self-described sociopath Patric Gagne for a LIVE interview with audience at Seattle's Town Hall venue, whose recent book Sociopath has been acclaimed as a "fascinating, r ... Show More
49m 34s
Jul 1
156 - Knowing WHEN to Speak Up
In this episode of Speaking with Confidence, I’m discussing the importance of strategic communication and how to effectively contribute to conversations that matter. I’ve been noticing my own ‘desire’ to contribute to ALL THE CONVERSATIONS, but actually, realising I need to focus ... Show More
13m 28s
May 12
The Problem with Being Too Nice: How to Reclaim Your Voice and Say NO
Saying "yes" when you mean "no" is a slow poison. Buy The Book Defy: The Power of No in a World That Demands Yes In this episode, Dr. Sunita Sah, a physician turned organizational psychologist, reveals the hidden costs of excessive compliance and how it silently destroys your s ... Show More
43m 20s
Apr 2025
breaking up with imposter syndrome
In this episode, we're cutting ties with our overstayed-their-welcome friend, imposter syndrome. If you’ve ever felt like you don't belong somewhere, that you're not enough, or that you must constantly prove yourself, this episode is your guide to a full identity recalibration. W ... Show More
22m 39s
Apr 2025
Triggered AF? Here’s How to Stay Calm & In Control When You Want to Lose It | Lisa Bilyeu (Fan Fav)
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: September 29, 2021. What up, guys? It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we're tackling how to stay calm and collected even when someone pushes all your buttons. I'm the freaking hothead ... Show More
42m 26s