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Mar 2025
46m 18s

212: Choosing Between Two Good Things

Dr. Marie Murphy
About this episode

Have you ever felt stuck between two good choices?

 

Through my personal story of leaving a life I loved to join the Peace Corps, I illustrate how choosing between two good things - while challenging - can lead to profound growth and fulfillment.

 

If you're struggling with a decision that feels impossible because both options have value, this episode is for you.

 

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.mariemurphyphd.com/212

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