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Mar 2025
28m 28s

26 Lessons I've Learned in 26 Years

Parmis Najmi
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In this week's episode, I’m sharing 26 of the most important lessons I’ve learned in my 26 years. From embracing solitude and setting healthy boundaries to rethinking money habits and recognizing that love doesn’t always mean compatibility. Tune in for this heart-to-heart chat about self-discovery 💗 Dm me your thoughts 💗 Support the show FIND PARMIS: Pers ... Show More
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