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Feb 2025
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Sex Q&A: How Do I Dirty Talk? Does Size ...

Gillian Berner
About this episode

We’re bringing you more than just the tip this week, so I highly recommend watching today’s episode on Spotify or YouTube to experience the visuals and product recommendations — if you’re not subscribed on Spotify and YouTube, go there now!

Happy hump day friends, and welcome back to another episode of “No Dumb Questions,” where I answer allll your burning Qs… because there are no dumb questions when it comes to adulting.

To kick off love month and Valentine’s Day, we’re doing a spicy Q&A on all things sex. Because whether you’re in a relationship, dating around, or single AF, we all deserve pleasure.

You all voted YES on Instagram, so I delivered… I’m showing you the best props and toys on the market, and how to use them to spice up your sex life. Trust me, it’s a vibe(rator).

In this episode, I answer all your juicy questions, including:

  • Tips for hot dirty talk (without it feeling awkward or forced)
  • How to tell if your partner is faking an orgasm
  • How to have honest, trusting communication about your desires
  • My top sex toys recos (from glass to silicone to metal of all shapes and sizes)
  • What to do if the guy you’re into is… hella small
  • Foreplay hacks that will level up your pleasure
  • Advice for if your man has performance anxiety
  • Positions for best stimulation and how to orgasm on top
  • Tips to incorporate sex swings
  • The key to having a healthy sex life without dating apps
  • My (toxic) case for recycling lovers

Go forth and get some! Love you.

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