logo
episode-header-image
Sep 2024
49m 35s

Modern Life Numbs You. Here’s The Neuros...

10% Happier
About this episode

New episodes come out every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers.

---

It’s so easy, especially these days, to numb out. To get bored. To move through life on autopilot. There is even a scientific term for this: habituation.

Today we’re talking to a researcher who co-authored a new book about the neuroscience of habit and how to wake up again. To make things exciting. Or as she says, to “re-sparkle”. 

Tali Sharot is a professor of cognitive neuroscience at University College London and MIT. She’s written several books including The Optimism Bias and The Influential Mind. Her latest, co-written with Cass Sunstein, is called Look Again: The Power of Noticing What Was Always There

In this episode we talk about:

  • What habituation is and what’s going on in the brain when it happens
  • How it negatively impacts the joy we feel in life – and inversely – how it can make us stop noticing the bad stuff
  • Key strategies for disrupting habituation and introducing change and variety into your life
  • The interesting relationship between creativity and people who habituate slowly
  • How habituation impacts our relationships
  • Why it’s important to break up the good experiences, but swallow the bad whole.
  • How to wake up from a “technologically induced coma”
  • How people emotionally habituate to dishonesty and lying
  • And lastly, we talk about the dangers of habituating to a slow, incremental rise in tyranny – and how dis-habituation entrepreneurs can help

Related Episodes:

#345 How to Change Your Habits | Katy Milkman

How Turning Habits Into Rituals Can Help You At Home, At Work, And When You’re Anxious | Michael Norton

Making and Breaking Habits, Sanely | Kelly McGonigal

Sign up for Dan’s weekly newsletter here

Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok

Ten Percent Happier online bookstore

Subscribe to our YouTube Channel

Our favorite playlists on: Anxiety, Sleep, Relationships, Most Popular Episodes

Full Shownotes:  https://happierapp.com/podcast/tph/tali-sharot-828

Up next
Today
The Science Of Manifestation: Can This Stanford Neuroscientist Convince A Skeptical Dan To Give It A Shot? | Dr. James R. Doty
Six practical steps to harness the full power of your mind. Our guest today is James R. Doty, a neurosurgeon who has just written a whole book about the science of manifestation – although, as you’ll hear him admit, there’s very little ‘magic’ involved in his process. James R. Do ... Show More
1h 16m
Jul 7
Ezra Klein On: Sane News Consumption; The Power of Meditation; The Future of the Species; And the Message of His Tattoo
On maintaining sanity in insane times. Ezra Klein is an opinion columnist and host of the award-winning Ezra Klein Show podcast at The New York Times. His latest book is Abundance, co-authored with Derek Thompson. He is also the author of Why We’re Polarized, an instant New York ... Show More
1h 15m
Jul 6
How Meditation Can Help You Handle Injured Feelings and Injured Muscles | Dawn Mauricio
Plus: How to build a meditation practice you keep coming back to. We’re in the midst of an exciting evolution of the overall 10% Happier project. In our quest to make this podcast more actionable – to help you operationalize all the game-changing ideas you encounter on this pod – ... Show More
24m 38s
Recommended Episodes
Apr 22
How To Break Unconscious Patterns, The Power of Meditation, The Truth About Dopamine & Creating Lasting Change with Dr Joe Dispenza #549
Almost everyone today is addicted to something. From phones and social media to alcohol and drugs, our modern life has created an unprecedented epidemic of dependency. But what is actually driving this addiction and how can we actually break free? This week’s returning guest is D ... Show More
1h 31m
Dec 2024
How Google X’s Mo Gawdat Made 1 Billion People Happier - Including YOU (Part 1) : 1230
Can Happiness Really Be Engineered? Mo Gawdat Says Yes—And Here’s How. I know what you’re thinking… ANOTHER episode on happiness? Haven’t we heard it all before? This one’s different. The code is cracked, and you’re about to learn exactly how it works. Joining us today is Mo Gawd ... Show More
1h 6m
Dec 2024
How to Hack Your Mood: Science-Backed Ways to Feel Better Every Day | Ep61
It’s wild how much the right nutrition can shift everything—your mood, your focus, even how connected you feel to others. Shawn Wells, a brilliant Nutritional Biochemist with over a thousand patented supplements to his name, opens up about his journey from a tough childhood and b ... Show More
49m 3s
Nov 2024
Why You Need a Dopamine Detox: The Science Based Way to Master Self Control & Break Addiction Patterns with Dr. Alok Kanojia
This episode is brought to you by Momentous, Lifeforce, and One Skin. In today’s world, addiction takes many forms—whether it’s alcohol, drugs, social media, or snacking on ultra-processed foods. Certain key factors drive these behaviors and make breaking the cycle of addiction c ... Show More
1h 26m
Apr 10
Identity Hacker: How to Completely Change Your Personality at ANY Age | Olga Khazan : 1268
What if you could rewrite the code of your personality—on command? Not just cope with anxiety, overthinking, or social exhaustion… but delete the traits holding you back and install better ones? This episode challenges everything you’ve been told about identity. Dave dives deep i ... Show More
1h 6m
Mar 2025
Neuroscientist: How To Hack Your Dopamine To Boost Your Mood, Energy, and Focus
I'm going on tour! Come see The School of Greatness LIVE in person!Get my new book Make Money Easy here!Prepare to completely rethink your relationship with technology as neuroscientist TJ Power reveals the shocking truth about what's happening to our brains in the digital age. D ... Show More
1h 4m
Sep 2024
More Happier: The Joy of Deadlines, Couples Therapy & Pondering One of Life’s Big Questions
We talk about how deadlines can boost our happiness, and how a TV show can spark a useful conversation with a teenager about values. Plus we debate a challenging question about how to navigate life’s challenges. Get in touch: podcast@gretchenrubin.com Follow on social media: @Gre ... Show More
21m 42s
May 13
61. You Create Your Reality: Being Delulu Is A Pro Brain Hack With Neuroscientist Emily McDonald
In this week’s episode, Elizabeth is joined by neuroscientist Emily McDonald for a mind-expanding conversation about the science behind manifestation, the power of belief, and why being “delulu” might just be the smartest thing you can do for your brain.Emily breaks down how our ... Show More
1h 10m
Sep 2023
Jeremy Abramson | Microdosing Psilocybin Mushrooms For Mental Health & Addiction: What Does The Science Say? KKP: 656
Today, I am blessed to have Jeremy Abramson. Jeremy is a passionate advocate for health, healing, and happiness in humanity. His journey into the realm of wellness was inspired by his background as the son of a Neurologist, fueling his lifelong fascination with brain health and n ... Show More
1h 48m
Jul 2024
How To Make Your Life Exciting Again
New research shows that your work, your life, and your relationships will get boring. Today, you’ll learn a simple tool you can use to make your life exciting, joyful, and energizing again. This profound conversation will allow you to truly understand and connect the dots between ... Show More
45m 24s