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Aug 2024
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194. Self-belief vs. Self-defeat: Stop W...

SUSAN CALLENDER
About this episode

Today we dive into the mindset shift you need to stop worrying about what others think and start showing up as your authentic, powerful self. If you find yourself holding back in business or social interactions because you’re worried about being judged or criticized, this episode is for you.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to break free from self-defeat and step into self-belief, owning their space in any room with confidence and purpose. Tune in now to start living big and making the impact you’re meant to make!

 Key Takeaways:

  • Break Free from the Fear of Judgment: Learn why worrying about others’ opinions keeps you playing small and how to shift your focus to your mission and purpose instead.
  • Master Your Inner Dialogue: Discover how to challenge and rewrite the negative self-talk that’s fueling your self-doubt, and replace it with empowering beliefs that boost your confidence.
  • Embrace Your Authentic Power: Understand why authenticity is your greatest asset and how leaning into your uniqueness can help you make a bigger impact and build stronger connections.

Actionable Tips:

  1. Shift Your Focus: Prioritize your mission over others’ opinions.
  2. Rewrite Your Story: Replace negative self-talk with empowering beliefs.
  3. Own Your Uniqueness: Embrace and celebrate what makes you different.

 

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