In this episode, Julie and Yue from Dateable are back for round 2! We get into their new book, How To Be Dateable, which is out now everywhere and so much more. Listen to learn about what vulnerability is and isn't, how to tell if you've been playing relationship chicken this whole time and tips for being more authentic on dates. We also talk about Julie's b ... Show More
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183. What to Wear on Dates: Confidence-Boosting Style Tips w/ Cassandra Sethi
What you wear on a date matters, but not how you might think! In this episode, I’m joined by professional stylist Cassandra Sethi, founder of Next Level Wardrobe, to talk about how to dress with confidence and put together stylish outfits in under a minute. We get into how to cre ... Show More
58m 54s
Jul 1
182. Sparks vs Chemistry: How To Build Chemistry & Stop Chasing Instant Attraction (throwback)
In this throwback episode, I’m breaking down the difference between sparks, chemistry, and compatibility and why chasing the spark can actually hurt your dating life. We’ll talk about what the spark really is (spoiler: it’s brain chemicals), why it fades fast, and what matters mo ... Show More
25m 14s
Jun 27
5 Lessons About Dating & Money From "Materialists" (Bonus Ep!)
In this bonus episode, I'm sharing my thoughts on the new movie, "Materialists." I'm breaking down what this film says about love, money, capitalism and dating for the long term, and what it got right about today's dating culture. If you haven't seen this movie yet, beware of spo ... Show More
24m 59s
Dec 2024
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need
Today, you are getting the best dating advice out there for both you and your loved ones.Mel sits down with Logan Ury – a behavior scientist, dating expert, host of Netflix’s new dating series “The Later Daters,” and Director of Relationship Science at Hinge – to get her science- ... Show More
1h 27m
Sep 2022
Epilogue: Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl ― A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Kristen & Jolenta respond to listener questions about Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl ― A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship, by Sherry Argov.
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41m 52s
Jan 2025
278: How To Know You're In The Wrong Relationship w/ Jillian Turecki
In this episode, Matthew sits down for a conversation with Jillian Turecki (@jillianturecki)—renowned relationship coach, teacher, and author of It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life. Over the last two decades, Jillian has empowered thousands ... Show More
1h 6m
Feb 2025
How to Glow Up Your Dating & Relationships ft. Intimacy & Relationship Coach
Dating red flags, how to meet people off the dating apps & how to feel confident on a first date with intimacy & relationship coach Susie Kim. Plus, we chat how to navigate different sex drives, incompatible love languages & her thoughts on “Once a cheater, always a cheater”.
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33m 12s