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Jun 2024
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Quickie w/ Julie: The #1 Skill In A Rela...

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
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We're told that communication is everything in relationships....but what if there's another skill that is arguably more important??? Julie takes you through her experience of what she learned through couples therapy and how it's applied to not only her romantic relationships but also relationships with friends, family and coworkers too.

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