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Jan 2025
27m 17s

497. Stop Being the Nice Girl

Jody Moore
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Do you ever feel like being "nice" is holding you back? Like you're constantly trying to please others at the expense of your own wants and desires?

 

In this episode, I dive into why being the "nice girl" can actually be a problem - it's dishonest, keeps you playing small, builds resentment, and minimizes your impact. But don't worry, I also share practical tips for how to stop this pattern.

 

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://jodymoore.com/497

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