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Jan 2025
27m 17s

497. Stop Being the Nice Girl

Jody Moore
About this episode

Do you ever feel like being "nice" is holding you back? Like you're constantly trying to please others at the expense of your own wants and desires?

 

In this episode, I dive into why being the "nice girl" can actually be a problem - it's dishonest, keeps you playing small, builds resentment, and minimizes your impact. But don't worry, I also share practical tips for how to stop this pattern.

 

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://jodymoore.com/497

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