May 2022

16m 32s

Ep. 38 - Stop Being Nice!

About this episode

I'm talking with you about why 'being nice' isn't a great goal for yourself, and what is a better goal that will empower you and keep you showing up bigger in your life! So many women have been conditioned to be nice, and it's a big bunch of BS.

- why nice isn't the goal anymore!

- how 'nice' may be showing up in your life & relationships

- I share a better goal that will serve your growth and authenticity

- I'm telling a funny story about the moment I realized I'd overcome my own 'be nice' conditioning!

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