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Oct 2023
28m 16s

#113: No More "Nice, Good Girl"! From Do...

Gloria Zhang, MA
About this episode

"You are the only person your inner child has."

Are you that "nice, good girl" who have always lived her entire life for people's love, approval and head pats?

Calling all recovering "good girls" - this episode is for you!!

If you are tired of constantly doing things for other people even if you don't want to and you always find it hard to say "no," listen up because today I'll teach you 3 practical steps to break that people-pleasing cycle.

Don't worry, bestie! You can still turn this around. How do I know? Well, I used to be one! And I hope that today's episode helps you become the person you want to be for YOURSELF, for your own inner child.Ā 

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EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:

  1. How I was raised to be a good girl and why I found myself in unfulfilling relationships
  2. Three practical steps to transition from doormat to decisive
  3. Call to Action: claim your position, know when to say no, don't devalue your own worth. Tag me on Instagram if this episode helped you and pre-order my book! See links below!

Hey bestie! My mission is to help High-Achievers and people-pleasers heal their Inner Child and find healthy love, especially those who desire an extraordinary connection but often struggle in their relationships.Ā 

Got An "Aha!" Moment? Take a screenshot this episode, share it with the world, tag me @bygloriazhang on Instagram, and let me know your thoughts!
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  1. Book A Free Love Strategy Consult: Ā Learn to see if the Soulmate program is right for you by booking a free call here.
  2. Pre-order my book: "A Woman's Guide to Inner Child Healing"Ā 

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FREE RESOURCES:

  1. Download my FREE Guide to Healing Your Core Wounds here
  2. Follow for daily inspo on @bygloriazhang!

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