We’re going to talk about the difference, why “being nice” is often a confidence trap, how to detox from people-pleasing, and how to step into strong, gracious, authentic kindness—without losing your softness, your generosity, or your beautiful heart.
This episode is for the woman who’s done being walked on.
It’s for the woman who’s tired of playing ... Show More
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#717: The Circular Thinking Trap: How To Finally Close The Loop
In this episode, I’m teaching you my Circular Thinking Roadmap, a powerful reframing exercise that will help you get your thoughts out of your head, separate facts from stories, and finally close the mental loop. ✅ FREE CLASS! LEARN HOW TO STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK Don’t ... Show More
27m 36s
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#716: The Way You Talk to Yourself Is Determining Your Future | Stop Talking To Yourself Like This (And Speak Like This Instead)
In this episode, we're talking about why being hard on yourself isn't helping you become your best self, and what to do instead. You'll learn how to recognize the difference between accountability and self-criticism, why your inner dialogue matters so much, and how to replace sel ... Show More
25m 43s
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The Good Girl rebellion: How to stop caring if you’re likeable
Fearne’s been thinking a lot lately about how much of her life she’s spent people pleasing as a result of wanting to be liked. So today, how to break free from the ‘good girl’ your family, friends, colleagues, and society expect you to be...In this episode –-Louise Redknapp clari ... Show More
44m 36s
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How to Stop Being Too Nice to People
Have you ever found yourself saying yes when you really wanted to say no? In this solo episode, Jake and Damian tackle a challenge many of us face, being “too nice” at the expense of ourselves. They unpack the difference between being nice and being kind, showing why true kindnes ... Show More
27m 31s
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Breaking the Likability Trap: Overcoming Gender Double Standards | E468
Have you ever felt like you just can’t win? If you’re too nice, people don’t take you seriously. If you’re too direct, suddenly you’re “too much.” For so many women, this double bind — rooted in gender double standards — is exhausting. My guest, Dr. Kate Mason, calls this out for ... Show More
54m 8s
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How to Stop Caring What People Think of You
<p>Today, you’re going to learn the simple trick to stop caring what other people think.</p><p>If you find that you take things personally, worry what other people think about you, are scared of being judged, or find that you can’t stop overthinking, you’ll love this episode.</p> ... Show More
51m 19s
<p class="p1">Do you ever feel like being "nice" is holding you back? Like you're constantly trying to please others at the expense of your own wants and desires?</p> <p class="p2"> </p> <p class="p1">In this episode, I dive into why being the "nice girl" can actually be a proble ... Show More
<p>People-pleasing is engrained into so many of us. In attempts to be nice, we neglect our own needs, trading authenticity for approval.</p>
<p>You will learn how to...</p>
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<li>be honest with other people</li>
<li>how people-pleasing relates to self-trust</li>
<li>tips for a ... Show More
