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Jan 2025
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Moving away from positive parenting and ...

CINDY HOVINGTON, PH.D.
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Send us Fan Mail This episode encourages parents to shift their focus from rigid parenting styles to a more reflective, emotion-centered approach. We discuss the pressures of perfectionism, the importance of self-awareness, and how embracing the idea of "good enough" can transform parenting experiences. • Exploring the pressures of positive and conscious p ... Show More
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