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Jan 2025
31m 19s

Getting Love Right This Time

NATALIE LEDWELL
About this episode

In this episode of Not Over, Just Different, I sit down with relationship experts Matthew and Orna Walters to explore the hidden blocks that can keep us from finding meaningful love. If you’ve ever felt stuck in your dating life or wondered why certain patterns keep repeating, this conversation will give you powerful insights into the emotional imprints and limiting beliefs that may be holding you back.

We’ll talk about their proven three-step process—Awareness, Transformation, and Manifestation—and how it can help you clear the way for deeper connections. Plus, they’ll share practical tips on how to date intentionally and build emotional intimacy that lasts.

Whether you're seeking love or looking to strengthen your current partnership, this episode offers actionable insights to help you break free from old patterns and embrace lasting love. Tune in and start your journey to meaningful connection!


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About Orna and Matthew Walters:
Orna and Matthew Walters are world-renowned dating coaches and founders of Creating Love On Purpose with a holistic approach to transforming hidden blocks to love, and the authors Getting It Right This Time: Break Free from Your Hidden Blocks to Lasting Love (Penguin Random House 2025).

Orna and Matthew have been featured on countless television, radio, and print outlets including: NBC, Fox News, MSN, USA Networks, KPFK Radio, and with Les Brown on CBS Radio and featured as guest experts on Bravo’s The Millionaire Matchmaker.

They have helped thousands of singles around the globe to bring in a beloved life partner. Orna and Matthew are dedicated to spreading the message that having love is an inside job, and that it’s never too late to find the love of your life.


Connect with Orna and Matthew Walters:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OrnaAndMatthew/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ornaandmatthew/
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Visit https://www.loveonpurpose.com/ to purchase their book - Getting It Right This Time


Key Timestamps:

[00:00] Introduction
[00:04:39] Hidden blocks to love.
[00:11:15] The hope to disappointment roller coaster.
[00:16:36] Awareness in finding love.
[00:18:01] Navigating conflict in relationships.
[00:22:12] Emotional intimacy without agreement.
[00:25:18] Lasting love through self-discovery.


Memorable Quotes:
"We call it dating burnout because you wear yourself out hoping that this next person is going to be the one instead of taking your time, evaluating them and being more discerning before you jump into

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