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Dec 2024
1h 1m

"I'm 34 And I've Never Had a Boyfriend"

Ilana Dunn
About this episode
I'm joined by Paige Crutcher, host of Adultish Wines, to discuss modern relationships, dating apps, and personal growth. We kick the episode off with one of Paige's hilariously wild dating stories, and then dive deeper into a discussion about people-pleasing, relationship statuses, coping mechanisms, handling rejection, and maintaining a positive mindset in ... Show More
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