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Nov 2024
37m 49s

Why are some kids shy? With Koraly Pérez...

AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION
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Our culture tends to prize being bold and outgoing, making the world harder to navigate for kids who are shy. Dr. Koraly Pérez-Edgar talks about temperament in young children, how shyness develops from babyhood on, the difference between shyness and introversion, how parents and other caregivers can best support shy kids, and recognizing the advantages of a ... Show More
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