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Nov 2024
22m 11s

How to Tackle Overtalking

Essential Communications - Tom Henschel
About this episode
A chief officer had known for years he was an over talker. His CEO, desperate for improvement, gave him a coach. This episode highlights their first coaching conversation. Two mindsets from this episode: When you speak, have a destination in mind. Ask yourself: “What is my point exactly?” and “Why is this something they need to know?” Pay attention to you ... Show More
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