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Nov 2024
30m 15s

E78 Aligning with Your True Values for P...

Katie Farinas
About this episode

In this episode, Katie dives deep into living in alignment with your core values to find greater purpose, passion, and inner peace. Through her unique coaching approach, Katie helps listeners discover how to live a life true to themselves, avoiding the common regret of not following their authentic path. She shares a story about a friend’s love for tennis, a powerful example of finding flow—that state of full presence that brings inner joy and fulfillment.

Katie also discusses insights from The Top 5 Regrets of the Dying by Bonnie Ware, highlighting why aligning our values with our daily actions is crucial for a regret-free life. By reflecting on what truly matters, we can all start moving toward a more intentional and fulfilling existence.

In two guided meditation sessions, Katie provides practical steps for grounding in the present moment and evaluating personal definitions of success. Rather than relying on external achievements, she explains how real success can come from within—measured by feelings of love, gratitude, compassion, and generosity. This approach resonates deeply with those looking to redefine their life goals in alignment with personal values.

Katie introduces the mantra "Shivo Hum," encouraging listeners to connect with their essence and universal creativity. Through this mantra and a guided visualization, Katie helps listeners envision themselves living a life rooted in their true values, away from distractions and toward personal growth and transformation.

Katie invites listeners to reflect on their journey, suggesting a journaling exercise to dive deeper into their values and intentions. For anyone ready to explore a purposeful life that aligns with their true self, this episode is a powerful step forward.

Key Topics:

  • Living in alignment with your core values
  • Finding purpose and passion through mindful reflection
  • Embracing inner peace and redefining success
  • Avoiding regret by living authentically
  • Using mantras and meditation for personal growth

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