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Oct 2024
52m 19s

Stop Doing Too Much & Reclaim Your Peace...

DR. MINDY PELZ
About this episode

Terri Cole explores how traditional codependency definitions fail to capture the experiences of many high-achieving individuals. Terri introduces the concept of high-functioning codependency, shedding light on behaviors like over-responsibility for others' problems and the resulting burnout. Terri and Mindy address the difficulty of relinquishing control, embracing self-discovery, and establishing boundaries, alongside recognizing the importance of letting loved ones be the heroes of their own stories. This episode is a call to action for women to reclaim their self-worth and pursue authentic, fulfilling lives by setting boundaries and prioritizing self-consideration over self-abandonment.

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Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist and global relationship and empowerment expert and the author of Boundary Boss and Too Much! For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs. She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change. She inspires over a million people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. For more, see https://terricole.com 

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