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Oct 2024
55m 45s

How to Stop Caring Too Much (and Leaving...

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About this episode

Are you a high-achiever who feels overly invested in the outcomes of others? In this insightful episode, psychotherapist Terri Cole dives into the concept of "high-functioning codependency" from her book Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency.


Discover whether you exhibit signs like over-functioning, auto-advice giving, and excessive self-sacrifice. Terri provides powerful strategies to find balance, set boundaries, and reclaim your inner peace without compromising your caring nature.


You can find Terri at: WebsiteInstagram | The HFC Toolkit | The Terri Cole Show podcastEpisode Transcript


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