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Oct 2024
45m 57s

How To Be Their Dream Girl ft. Margarita...

GIRL CODE
About this episode

S5 E11: Black cat energy only. Our most popular guest of S4 is BACK! After the huge success of her new book
The New Rules: The Ultimate Guide to Being Her, Margarita is back to share her best tips on being your best self and a "dream girl".

Topics Covered:

  • Black Cat VS Golden Retriever Energy
  • Daddy Issues
  • How to be a dream girl
  • How to know if you should marry them
  • The #1 relationship killer (according to a divorce attorney)
  • What to do when you see them following / interacting with other girls online
  • How relationships change as we get older

Where to find Margarita!

Book: The New Rules: The Ultimate Guide to Being He⁠r

Podcast: Being Her

Instagram: Margarita Nazarenko


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