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Nov 2024
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Secrets to Surviving Love: When to Hold ...

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Secrets to Surviving Love: When to Hold On and When to Let Go

In this episode, hosts Dre and Rhonda welcome the Real Lover gang back and discuss their plans for the holiday season. Rhonda shares her experience of being convinced to host Thanksgiving and her plans to travel for Christmas. The duo dives into a listener's scenario involving a three-year relationship marred by infidelity and the difficult decision to end things. They explore the complexities of reconciliation, trust issues, and how to effectively and respectfully break up. The episode also emphasizes the importance of intentionality in relationships and offers support for those feeling the emotional weight of the holiday season. Tune in as we delve into this complex relationship dilemma.

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